问一些容易回答的礼节性问题

礼节性问题让人容易回答。首先以友好、真诚的方式观察你感兴趣和想交谈的人，给与友好而真诚的问候，并给予称赞，然后很快给对方一个礼节性的问题，这个问题直接与你给的称赞有关。比如：“你的戒指好漂亮啊！这是什么钻石啊？”或“你滑冰真棒！你是在哪学的啊？”

Etiquette questions are easy to answer. First observe the people you are interested in and want to talk to in a friendly and sincere manner, give friendly and sincere greetings, and give compliments, and then quickly give the other party a courtesy question, which is directly related to the compliment you give. For example: "Your ring is so beautiful! What kind of diamond is this?" or "You are great skating! Where did you learn?"

打破僵局的第二种方式是注意那些手中拿东西的人，问一些关于这个东西的问题。他可能拿的是个乐器。可以问他喜欢弹奏哪种音乐，他是在那里学的，弹了多久或者怎么入门。如果看到正在摄影的人，你可以问他用的什么牌子相机，是专业的还是业余的等等。

The second way to break the deadlock is to pay attention to those who have something in their hands and ask some questions about it. He may be holding an instrument. You can ask him what kind of music he likes to play, where he learned it, how long he has played or how to get started. If you see someone who is taking pictures, you can ask him what brand of camera he is using, is it professional or amateur, etc.

打破僵局的第三种方式是根据当时的情况发表评论或者提出问题。如果你看到有人看起来好像是在寻求帮助，你可以提供帮助，这是你开始交谈的一个很好的方法，这时你可以说：“你看起来好像迷路了，你是在找什么地方吗？我就住这附近，或许我可以帮你。”

The third way to break the deadlock is to make comments or ask questions based on the situation at the time. If you see someone who seems to be asking for help, you can provide help. This is a great way for you to start a conversation. At this point you can say: "You seem to be lost, where are you looking? Do you? I live near here, maybe I can help you."

除了请求或者提供帮助外，开始交谈的另一个方式是对你所观察到的事情发表看法。最好是谈论一些积极的事情，而不是去抱怨一些消极的事情。

In addition to requesting or offering help, another way to start a conversation is to express your opinion about what you have observed. It is better to talk about positive things than to complain about negative things.

礼节性问题可用于打破僵局，引出谈话。观察人们都在做什么，谈什么，你可以很容易找到他人感兴趣的话题。

Etiquette questions can be used to break deadlocks and elicit conversations. By observing what people are doing and talking about, you can easily find topics that interest others.

自我介绍的最佳时期：一般来说你越晚自我介绍，他人就会感到不舒服，所以最好尽快主动进行自我介绍。在交谈的停顿中，你要抓这一个好时机去说：“顺便说一下，我叫......你怎么称呼？”他人一般都会友好的反应。然后你再接着问一个问题，或者对其他人告诉你的事情进行评论，这样你们的交谈就会开始和继续。

Best time to introduce yourself: Generally speaking, the later you introduce yourself, others will feel uncomfortable, so it is best to take the initiative to introduce yourself as soon as possible. During the pause in the conversation, you should seize this good opportunity to say: "By the way, my name is...what do you call it?" Others generally respond friendly.Then you can ask another question or comment on what other people have told you so that your conversation will start and continue.