不要过着“狗年月（dog years）”的生活

你需要弄清楚自己一直想要的选择，而不是被别人牵着鼻子走。

You need to figure out the choice you have always wanted instead of being led by the nose.

不要过着“狗年月”的生活，换句话说，就是不要生活了一年，却像老了7年一样。不论你做什么，你都需要时间，精力和承诺。做自己不喜欢的事会使你老的很快。道理很简单：无论你做什么，都会对你构成改变。过喜欢的生活，会产生魔幻般的效果，使你保持年轻、精力充沛、身体健康。

Don't live the life of "dog years and months", in other words, don't live for a year, but it is like 7 years old. No matter what you do, you need time, energy and commitment. Doing things you don't like will make you grow old quickly. The reason is simple: whatever you do, it will change you. Living a life you like will have magical effects that will keep you young, energetic, and healthy.

害怕失败，导致更多的人为求自保而安于现状，他们担心这个寻找的过程是毫无意义的。避免将愉悦转化为焦虑，焦虑只会促使你不断的相信噩梦的到来，而不会让你回想起最初的梦想。喜悦就像是类固醇的能量一般，有着巨大的推动力。

Fear of failure causes more people to settle for the status quo for self-protection. They worry that this search process is meaningless. Avoid turning pleasure into anxiety. Anxiety will only make you continue to believe in the arrival of nightmares, instead of reminding you of your original dreams. Joy is like the energy of steroids, with a huge driving force.

有一句被吟诵了很多年的一句话：“没有爱，你就什么都不是”！如果你为了晋升高层而抛弃了爱，抛弃了其他的牵绊，我要告诉你，非常不值！你最终将会空空如也。也许你拥有了巨大的财富，但是你的生活已经腐化了。

There is a saying that has been recited for many years: "Without love, you are nothing"! If you abandon love and other ties in order to advance to a higher level, I want to tell you, it's not worth it! You will end up empty. Maybe you have great wealth, but your life has been corrupted.

有些人将自己到达人生巅峰的过程视为一场战争。他们一路颠簸，起伏不定，只为获得地位、权力和金钱，到头来却发现，当他们到了顶峰之时，那种生活却并不令人满意，他们自言自语：“所有我想要的都在这吗？”

Some people see their journey to the pinnacle of life as a war. They were bumpy and ups and downs all the way, just to gain status, power and money, but in the end they found that when they reached the top, that kind of life was not satisfactory. They said to themselves: "All I want is Are you here?"

还有就是你的身体健康非常重要，那些大富豪正用他们的财富交换你的健康。任何的金钱、权力和地位都买不起你的健康。

There is also that your physical health is very important. The rich are using their wealth in exchange for your health. No money, power, or status can afford your health.

真正的成功，其核心在于爱。其中包括爱自己，保护自己。

The core of true success lies in love. This includes loving yourself and protecting yourself.

大多数人之所以没有获得他们想要的东西有3大原因。

There are three main reasons why most people do not get what they want.

1.他们不会求助，如果你连自己想要什么都不知道，没有人愿意帮你。

1. They won't ask for help. If you don't even know what you want, no one wants to help you.

2.他们求助了，却求助错了对象。一定程度的讲，人们寻求关键性关系帮忙时多多少少会有些不自在。结果他们可能会找朋友以外的其他人，但其实只有朋友才有动力帮他们。

2. They ask for help, but they ask for the wrong person. To a certain extent, people are more or less uncomfortable when they seek help from key relationships. As a result, they may find someone other than their friends, but in fact, only friends have the motivation to help them.

3.即使他们寻求帮助了，他们也说的非常不明确。虽然我也有动力去帮助朋友，但如果我根本不知道他们想做什么，我是绝对帮不了的。

3. Even if they ask for help, they are very ambiguous. Although I am also motivated to help friends, if I don't know what they want to do, I can't help.