按五个基本步骤开始交谈

1.大胆的面对，不要害怕被拒绝：首先打招呼。

1. Face it boldly and don't be afraid of rejection: Say hello first.

2.惯用话题：根据当时情况和对方特点，问一些让对方容易回答的问题。

2. Common topics: According to the situation and characteristics of the other party, ask some questions that are easy for the other party to answer.

3.积极聆听：通过认真聆听，才能知道接下来你该说什么。

3. Active listening: Only by listening carefully can you know what you should say next.

4.搜寻信息:基于你已经获得的信息提问，搜寻更多的信息。

4. Search for information: ask questions based on the information you have already obtained and search for more information.

5.展示自我:当你询问他人一些你感兴趣的问题时，也向他人充分介绍自己这方面的情况。

5. Show yourself: When you ask others questions that interest you, you should also fully introduce yourself to others.

开始交谈的四种方式/Four ways to start a conversation

1.提出封闭或者开放性问题

1. Ask closed or open questions

2.发表一个积极的轻松的评论

2. Post a positive and relaxing comment

3.在一个容易回答的问题后面紧跟着赞美

3. Follow a compliment after an easy-to-answer question

4.介绍你自己

4. Introduce yourself

当你想转移话题的时候可以用“说起……”

When you want to change the topic, you can use "Speaking..."