环境改变，你也要做出调整（一）

很多人渴望生活平静、安稳，然而它只是作家喜欢写的一种幻想，因为它听起来非常美好。几乎每个人都在疯狂地追求一种一直能够处于安稳、怡静状态的生活。实际上它只是无稽之谈，很难实现。就连杂技团旋转碟子的演员，反复重复升起和降落的动作来寻找所谓的平衡，直到12个盘子能一起旋转，但也不能维持很长时间。生活也是一样，即使你能保持生活的平衡，但时间也只有三秒。

Many people desire peace and stability in life, but it is just a fantasy that writers like to write because it sounds very beautiful. Almost everyone is frantically pursuing a life that can always be in a stable and quiet state. In fact, it is just nonsense and difficult to achieve. Even the actors of the acrobatic troupe spinning the dishes repeatedly raise and lower to find the so-called balance until the 12 dishes can rotate together, but it can't be maintained for a long time. Life is the same. Even if you can maintain a balance in your life, the time is only three seconds.

当你发现生活中原先运转良好的东西不再发生作用的时候，这证明，你该重新审视“参与改造生活的七大部分”的时候了。

When you find that the things that worked well in your life no longer work, it proves that it's time for you to re-examine the "participation in transforming the seven major parts of life".

1.重新评估你的环境：当我们的生活环境发生巨大的变化的时候，原本健康、充满活力、有益的生活也会跟着遭殃。在新的环境中追加老式的日程安排已是徒劳。所以我们必须做出一些改变，以保证我们在新的环境中获得成功的最大可能性。但是，为了达到这个目标，我们需要暂且“停顿”一下生活的脚步，重新评估周围的环境，对未来做一些适当的调整。大多数人通常都不会花时间去重新审视他们的生活。他们继续带着一种无意识的、不正确的信念费力地往前走，认为“无论如何，一切事情都会好转”。这是大错特错的!在这个时候，生活的快乐也在不断的消逝。我们的梦想陷入了静止的状态，而“遗忘”开始趁机袭人。当梦想重新浮现的时候，却变得很难实现。也就在这个时候，我们开始接受那些次于最好的事物。现实中有太多的人就这样过了后半生，这是再痛苦不过的生活状态。

Re-evaluate your environment: When our living environment undergoes tremendous changes, the originally healthy, energetic, and beneficial life will also suffer. Adding old-fashioned schedules to the new environment is futile. So we must make some changes to ensure that we have the greatest possibility of success in the new environment. However, in order to achieve this goal, we need to temporarily "pause" the pace of life, reassess the surrounding environment, and make some appropriate adjustments to the future. Most people usually don't take the time to re-examine their lives. They continue to walk forward laboriously with an unconscious and incorrect belief that "anyway, everything will get better". This is a big mistake! At this time, the happiness of life is constantly disappearing. Our dreams fell into a static state, and "forgotten" began to take the opportunity to attack people. When the dream resurfaced, it became difficult to realize. It was at this time that we began to accept the things that were second to the best. In reality, too many people live the rest of their lives in this way. This is a state of life that cannot be more painful.

2.重新评估你的影响力：我们可以通过评价三种东西，就可以改变你的世界，那就是（你的所读、你的所听、你的关键性朋友）

Re-evaluate your influence: We can change your world by evaluating three things, that is (what you read, what you hear, and your key friends)

你的所读：不管你年龄多大，你们读的书越多越好。美国顶尖的激励演讲者之一吉姆·罗恩说过：“成功的人生所需要的一切要素都已写下来了。这些都是现成的，你只要去图书馆就可以查的到。”曾经对美国公民进行过调查，发现哪怕读书图书证是免费的，且去图书室也非常方便，但仍只有3%的人拥有图书证。全国3%的人享有97%的公共财富。不能阅读的人和选择不阅读的人没什么两样，他们都以无知而告终。拥有很多杰出作者的思想在脑海里回荡是多么新奇和愉快的体验。有一本书中有这样一个数据：通常情况下，通过5次客户联络就可以获得一份生意。不仅仅是5封邮件、5次电话，而是5次“个人会面”，已建立良好关系。只有10%的推销人员坚持与潜在客户联络5次，为的就是做成生意！

What you read: No matter how old you are, the more books you read, the better. Jim Ron, one of the top motivational speakers in the United States, said: "All the elements necessary for a successful life have been written down. These are all ready-made, you can find them by just going to the library." U.S. citizens conducted a survey and found that even though the reading library card is free and it is very convenient to go to the library, only 3% of the people still have a library card. 3% of people in the country enjoy 97% of public wealth. Those who can't read are no different from those who choose not to read. They both end up in ignorance. What a novel and pleasant experience to have the thoughts of many outstanding authors echoing in my mind. There is such a data in a book: Usually, a business can be obtained through 5 customer contacts. Not only 5 emails and 5 phone calls, but 5 "personal meetings", and a good relationship has been established. Only 10% of salespeople insist on contacting potential customers 5 times in order to make business!

你的所听：它是一种积极主动的听，是有意识的行为，你参与其中。当你利用起你的上班路上、步行、或是吃午餐的时间，你“收听”有价值的东西，你也在学习。

What you hear: It is a kind of active listening, a conscious behavior, you participate in it. When you use your time to work, walk, or eat lunch, you "listen" to valuable things, you are also learning.

你的关键性朋友：耗尽（你认识的人中总有一些人会损耗你的能量，你每次见他们的时候他们都在叹息，每次与这些人打交道，你就会被剥夺一些东西。）；中立（这些人不会真正影响到你的情绪，你对他们没有任何的个人期待。他们可能是你的同事，你们虽然每天都会见面，但是你们并不亲密。你们仅仅只是熟悉而已，但没有必要有更深入、更有意义的交往。因为我们相互需要对方，但也仅仅是实用水平之上，你不可能和每一个人都成为朋友，每一个人也不会都和你成为朋友）；补充（这些人会给你带来活力，他们不断的创造美好的事物，你期待见到他们，他们也希望见到你，他们带来了轻松与慰藉，从个人层面上讲，他们可能是你的家人或者配偶，或者你所爱的亲密朋友，也许你在为一件事感到困惑、紧张或者想不通，但当他们一出现，可能仅仅只是说了两个字就能让你愉快。）真正的朋友需要相互的亲密、真挚和承诺，你不可能拥有“很多朋友”，因为没有人会有时间或情感空间去和如此多的人成为亲密朋友。内部圈子是最小的圈子，不过它却是最强大的。

Your key friends: exhausted (there are always some people you know will consume your energy, every time you see them they will sigh, every time you deal with these people, you will be Deprive something.); Neutral (These people will not really affect your emotions. You have no personal expectations for them. They may be your colleagues. Although you meet every day, you are not close. You are just Familiar, but there is no need to have deeper and more meaningful communication. Because we need each other, but it is only above the practical level, you can not be friends with everyone, and everyone will not be with each other. You become friends); supplement (These people will bring you vitality, they continue to create beautiful things, you look forward to seeing them, they also want to see you, they bring ease and comfort, from a personal level , They may be your family or spouse, or a close friend you love, maybe you are confused, nervous, or unable to figure out something, but when they show up, they may just say two words to make You are happy.) True friends need mutual intimacy, sincerity and commitment. You cannot have "many friends" because no one has the time or emotional space to be close friends with so many people. The inner circle is the smallest circle, but it is the most powerful.

3.告诉自己事实：为了能够实现梦想和目标，你可能要走一条令你感到陌生的道路。在行走的过程中，你可能会遇到一些意料之外的陷阱、曲折与变动。换个角度去看待它们！当自我挫败的想法游荡在你的脑海或者企图潜入你内心的时候，千万不要让它们就这样肆无忌惮地潜入进来。你不能再让它们这样胡作非为了。转变你想法和情绪的最快的办法，就是大声对自己说话，你对自己说的话要用坚定的口吻，说出的话要铿锵有力！

Tell yourself the facts: In order to achieve your dreams and goals, you may have to take a path that makes you feel unfamiliar. In the process of walking, you may encounter some unexpected traps, twists and changes. Look at them from another angle! When self-defeating thoughts wander in your mind or attempt to sneak into your heart, don't let them just sneak in like this. You can't let them do things like this anymore. The quickest way to change your thoughts and emotions is to speak loudly to yourself, use a firm tone of what you say to yourself, and speak loudly and powerfully!

你永远不会太迟、或太早、或太年轻、或太老……。

You are never too late, or too early, or too young, or too old….

在人生中，我们比赛不是为了赢得九局，而是坚持到最后。奇迹有时会隐藏起来。在某个角落潜藏着一些你还未曾看到过的东西，他们会为你打开一个全新的令人振奋的世界。

In life, we do not compete to win nine rounds, but to persist to the end. Miracles are sometimes hidden. There are things hidden in a corner that you have not seen before, and they will open up a whole new and exciting world for you.