你的“挡风玻璃”要远远大于你的“后视镜”

有些人热切希望实现自己的梦想与目标，并朝着某个方向努力前进，当遇到了挫折，他们立马就放弃了。而通常情况下，美好的事情原本即将发生，可他们没有坚持下来。

Some people are so passionate about achieving their dreams and goals that they move in a certain direction and then give up immediately when they hit a setback. And more often than not, something wonderful was about to happen, but they didn't stick with it.

有些追梦者很少会意识到，那些看起来是必败的事情也许仅仅是一个“弯路”而已。因为弯路，你从追梦的大道走到了陌生的领地，意想不到的转折点可能会使你失去方向感，除非你具备超群的能力，保持冷静并马上适应新的情形。当你遇到弯路的时候，你首先要意识到，你的“挡风玻璃”要远远大于你的“后视镜”。你不能在老路上返回，因为那条路已经走完了。老想着过去是不会有好处的，要命令自己“朝前看”！

Some dreamers rarely realize that what seems like a sure thing to fail may just be a "detour." You've taken a detour from your dream path into unfamiliar territory. Unexpected turning points can throw you off course, unless you have an exceptional ability to stay calm and immediately adapt to a new situation. When you hit a detour, the first thing you need to realize is that your windshield is bigger than your rearview mirror. You can't go back on the old road, because that road is finished. Dwelling on the past is no good. Order yourself to "look ahead"!

有一条坚若磐石的规则认为，当你经过崎岖不平的人生道路的时候，弯路会对你大有帮助。这句话你应该写下来，贴在你每天最容易看到的地方，直到它已成为你生活的一部分，因为它会成为你强有力的同盟者。当你遇到弯路的时候，它会赐予你力量，维持你的平衡。将不确定性视为最终能够使你受益匪浅的友好的东西。弯路不会永恒，也不是通往命运的路。弯路是必然的，但也是短暂的侧路。

There's a rock-hard rule that says detours will help you when you're going through life's rough terrain. This is a sentence you should write down and post it where you can see it most easily every day until it becomes a part of your life, for it will become your strong ally. It will give you strength and maintain your balance when you hit a detour. Look at uncertainty as a friendly thing that will ultimately serve you well. Detours do not last forever, nor are they the road to destiny. Detours are inevitable, but it is also a short side road.